Away From My Desk
Thursday
I know it's been quite a while. Much has been happening for me personally as I'm here in Alaska, and I haven't had the... well, I just haven't had the dedication to this blog to continue it. Perhaps this will go the way of all school projects/camps/fads and fade slowly into the distance. I'm not sure, but I do want to let you know that I'm not planning to post here regularly in the near future. This isn't a closed book yet, but it sure is looking that way.
Bags Packed
Wednesday
Bags packed. Two words that convey so many reactions... anyway, our bags are all packed and we set off tomorrow. See you all in a week or so :)
I'm an "A"
Sunday
What about you? Any other A's out there?
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Packed and Leaving
Well, I am. Packed and leaving. Packed today, leaving Thursday.
My two shiny black suitcases are deliciously underweight (for the first time in more than 35 plane flights) and clothes are still sprinkled around my living room... looking somewhat like the way I imagine a hyperactive maraca player would decorate.
ANYway, I now have this queasy feeling in my stomach, which surfaces and disappears. What will happen next? Will I be able to carry everything? Do I have what I need?
It's also amazing to see these remnants on the floor, things I thought I truly needed, but now that I consider them... how important is that button-up vest, really? Is that red shirt truly as life-altering as I thought? I probably will survive for three months without my ski gloves.
I love the perspective that comes with these times. Similarly, as I'm considering being a freelancer (as of Wednesday!)... how important is it to work five days a week? Do I really need that salary I was on? Is it possible that I could find alternative ways to get my food, clothes, rent money, etc? I saw a quick documentary about some men who lived in a South American jungle who visited the USA. One man commented, "We know things that they do not know and they know things we do not know" as he discussed how they always had what they needed in the jungle, but people on Wall Street seemed to always need something else.
It's a cliche. It's overdone, but I know that a 9-5 is not everything. Stability doesn't come from an external circumstance.
My two shiny black suitcases are deliciously underweight (for the first time in more than 35 plane flights) and clothes are still sprinkled around my living room... looking somewhat like the way I imagine a hyperactive maraca player would decorate.
ANYway, I now have this queasy feeling in my stomach, which surfaces and disappears. What will happen next? Will I be able to carry everything? Do I have what I need?
It's also amazing to see these remnants on the floor, things I thought I truly needed, but now that I consider them... how important is that button-up vest, really? Is that red shirt truly as life-altering as I thought? I probably will survive for three months without my ski gloves.
I love the perspective that comes with these times. Similarly, as I'm considering being a freelancer (as of Wednesday!)... how important is it to work five days a week? Do I really need that salary I was on? Is it possible that I could find alternative ways to get my food, clothes, rent money, etc? I saw a quick documentary about some men who lived in a South American jungle who visited the USA. One man commented, "We know things that they do not know and they know things we do not know" as he discussed how they always had what they needed in the jungle, but people on Wall Street seemed to always need something else.
It's a cliche. It's overdone, but I know that a 9-5 is not everything. Stability doesn't come from an external circumstance.
Ways to be Heard
Tuesday
Do you write a blog?
Is it a raging success?
If you answered "yes," how about giving me me a link? ;)
If you answered "no," why not start by considering your involvement in other blogs? In particular, how often do you comment on other blogs?
I once read a blogger who said he tries to comment on every blog he reads. This does two things:
1. Makes you really interact with the ideas in the blog. Don't just channel-surf blogs all day long... that's like eating a steady stream of celery soup. You get NOTHING out of it and eventually want to gag. Dig into the blogs you're reading and find something to challenge yourself with. Leave comments makes you think about the blog.
2. Visibility. There's no better way to find people who are interested in reading what you write than to leave your face (and url) beside a thoughtful comment on someone else's blog. If you're reading interesting, thought-provoking blogs, you're probably in good company. The other readers of that blog are likely to be people with similar interests to you (you're both interested in the same blogs, anyway!) and they might just be interested in what you have to say.
A win-win, what's not to like? It takes a lot more effort, but you end up getting more out of blogs when you leave a little piece of your thoughts down the bottom as a comment.
Have you ever commented on a blog? Anything exciting happen?
Is it a raging success?
If you answered "yes," how about giving me me a link? ;)
If you answered "no," why not start by considering your involvement in other blogs? In particular, how often do you comment on other blogs?
I once read a blogger who said he tries to comment on every blog he reads. This does two things:
1. Makes you really interact with the ideas in the blog. Don't just channel-surf blogs all day long... that's like eating a steady stream of celery soup. You get NOTHING out of it and eventually want to gag. Dig into the blogs you're reading and find something to challenge yourself with. Leave comments makes you think about the blog.
2. Visibility. There's no better way to find people who are interested in reading what you write than to leave your face (and url) beside a thoughtful comment on someone else's blog. If you're reading interesting, thought-provoking blogs, you're probably in good company. The other readers of that blog are likely to be people with similar interests to you (you're both interested in the same blogs, anyway!) and they might just be interested in what you have to say.
A win-win, what's not to like? It takes a lot more effort, but you end up getting more out of blogs when you leave a little piece of your thoughts down the bottom as a comment.
Have you ever commented on a blog? Anything exciting happen?
What Makes Eurovision Excellent?
Sunday
Context.
These totally absurd performances would be irritating anywhere else, or at least embarrassing, but we expected Eurovision 2011 to be over-hyped, over-coloured, and over-acted. So we love it. And by we, I mean I. And my college-aged hipster-wanabee music-nerd friends. But it's fantastic!
For an example, check out this year's winner, Azerbaijan's "Ell and Nikki." The song has some beautiful phrases and some moving harmonies, but I'd skip right past it if I heard it on the radio. However! The context makes it one of the most unforgettable songs of the year. Because of a careful use of context, Ell and Nikki are now international stars and national heroes, having won Azerbaijan the right to host the MAJOR Eurovision 2012 contest.
Maybe you're not as geographically ignorant as me, but I've been practicing all night and I still can't pronounce Azerbaijan. The right move at the right time will now bring this little-known European nation millions of dollars worth of international marketing and exposure.
You literally cannot buy the kind of airtime Azerbaijan will now get.
What is the secret? Make sure you're offering a product (performance) which is actually good, then just make sure you're presenting it to people who actually want to hear about it. And make sure to catch them at a time when they want to hear about it. Not in the middle of a busy work day, and NOT in the middle of their dinner.
These totally absurd performances would be irritating anywhere else, or at least embarrassing, but we expected Eurovision 2011 to be over-hyped, over-coloured, and over-acted. So we love it. And by we, I mean I. And my college-aged hipster-wanabee music-nerd friends. But it's fantastic!
For an example, check out this year's winner, Azerbaijan's "Ell and Nikki." The song has some beautiful phrases and some moving harmonies, but I'd skip right past it if I heard it on the radio. However! The context makes it one of the most unforgettable songs of the year. Because of a careful use of context, Ell and Nikki are now international stars and national heroes, having won Azerbaijan the right to host the MAJOR Eurovision 2012 contest.
Maybe you're not as geographically ignorant as me, but I've been practicing all night and I still can't pronounce Azerbaijan. The right move at the right time will now bring this little-known European nation millions of dollars worth of international marketing and exposure.
You literally cannot buy the kind of airtime Azerbaijan will now get.
What is the secret? Make sure you're offering a product (performance) which is actually good, then just make sure you're presenting it to people who actually want to hear about it. And make sure to catch them at a time when they want to hear about it. Not in the middle of a busy work day, and NOT in the middle of their dinner.
My Why
Wednesday
I've taken some time this week to consider my "why" - my reason for doing what I'm doing. This includes my recent fascinations with:
-jogging
-reading
-marketing
-traveling
-working part-time
I'm about to embark on a huge shift in the way I work and make a living, which is bringing all the "usual" activities of life into clearer focus. In two week, I will no longer have a regular job, getting a comfy paycheck every second Friday, with a complimentary coffee machine to greet me each morning. Instead, I'll be picking up work as a marketing contractor wherever it is provided, and trusting that the rest will be worked out.
I'm addicted to enterprise, so this excites me more than it scares me, but I have noticed that my overall patience and long-suffering have been lacking lately. I've been a grouch.
So this brings me to my "why." My parents encouraged me to consider what I really want in some areas of my life, and this has enabled me to say "no" to things which don't suit that vision, without regret or guilt.
So, my "why" for business exists is still just in draft stage, but it goes something like:
To be a real person in an impersonal marketplace. I want to celebrate the unique gifts I have been given, while using those gifts to understand more about my own nature and how I work in relationships. The essence of everything that matters to me is relational and real (genuine/sincere) and I want to let that play out in whatever work I do.
I don't yet know how this helps clarify my various activities... but I trust it will.
I don't yet know how this helps clarify my various activities... but I trust it will.
Do you have a "why?"
A Personal Credit Card
No. It doesn't exist.
Sorry to spoil that upfront, but that was the lesson I learned today. I've become a little idealistic from all the Seth Godin I've been reading, with his insistence that companies ought to be personal and sensible. When it comes to big banks, there is just no sense and no person. There are no real people to talk to. Even when you talk to a person, you're not talking to a person, you're talking to a strictly enforced training procedure.
So what's my problem?
"Sandy" asked me, "So Catherine, what do you want from our phone conversation" and I told her what I really wanted was a relationship with a banker whom I can trust.
Turns out, my expectations were unrealistic. It's fine for me to read Seth Godin and get inspired about how I will do business, but I cannot expect that these massive banks will read the same blog posts and be as inspired and revolutionized as I am.
In acceptance, there is peace.
Anyone else have a hard time with the banks? What do YOU want from your service providers?
Sorry to spoil that upfront, but that was the lesson I learned today. I've become a little idealistic from all the Seth Godin I've been reading, with his insistence that companies ought to be personal and sensible. When it comes to big banks, there is just no sense and no person. There are no real people to talk to. Even when you talk to a person, you're not talking to a person, you're talking to a strictly enforced training procedure.
So what's my problem?
"Sandy" asked me, "So Catherine, what do you want from our phone conversation" and I told her what I really wanted was a relationship with a banker whom I can trust.
Turns out, my expectations were unrealistic. It's fine for me to read Seth Godin and get inspired about how I will do business, but I cannot expect that these massive banks will read the same blog posts and be as inspired and revolutionized as I am.
In acceptance, there is peace.
Anyone else have a hard time with the banks? What do YOU want from your service providers?
The Number One Secret to Getting Things Done
Friday
I'll give you a hint: it's the easiest thing in the world, but it's the hardest. There really is no other secret, which is a relief, but it means you cannot compromise on this step. There are different ways to get to this step, and people will try to tell you that you can trick yourself into liking this step through various techniques, but at the end of the day, there is only one secret to getting things done.
I'm not telling you what it is yet. Bear with me.
You may have noticed there weren't many posts here recently. That's because I was in QLD at a wonderful music festival with some friends I grew up with. The intensity and frivolity of the occasion was delicious, but it's left me giving myself excuses for not doing the things I would ordinarily do (i.e. hang out my washing, blog, sleep).
Want to know the secret I have come to terms with? Do it. Just do it. Like Nike. Like Steven Pressfield's new book (Do the Work), which is free for Kindle/iPhone/any eReading device, thanks to the Domino Project (this is revolutionary for anyone interested in books or what they achieve. Sign up now.)
I used to overthink things. I know, hard to believe ;)
One day, I watched the Triplets of Belleville with a friend and I was busy trying to discover its deeper meaning when he said, "Um, let it go?" and that moment changed my life. So simple, so possible, so easy... so why did it feel so hard?
Because there's no compromise. Ready? Go. Do. It.
I'm not telling you what it is yet. Bear with me.
You may have noticed there weren't many posts here recently. That's because I was in QLD at a wonderful music festival with some friends I grew up with. The intensity and frivolity of the occasion was delicious, but it's left me giving myself excuses for not doing the things I would ordinarily do (i.e. hang out my washing, blog, sleep).
Want to know the secret I have come to terms with? Do it. Just do it. Like Nike. Like Steven Pressfield's new book (Do the Work), which is free for Kindle/iPhone/any eReading device, thanks to the Domino Project (this is revolutionary for anyone interested in books or what they achieve. Sign up now.)
I used to overthink things. I know, hard to believe ;)
One day, I watched the Triplets of Belleville with a friend and I was busy trying to discover its deeper meaning when he said, "Um, let it go?" and that moment changed my life. So simple, so possible, so easy... so why did it feel so hard?
Because there's no compromise. Ready? Go. Do. It.
Who Do You Hold Close?
Monday
So, who do you hold close? Whoa re the people you surround yourself with?
How do these people impact the way you see the world each morning?
I've recently reviewed the blogs I follow. One of the bloggers expressed that he was having a very difficult time, and I was moved to share some words of encouragment, but that was all shut down when I read his response to a fellow commenter. She had encouraged him to be open to receiving help, but he quite definitely told her that he is no position to receive help, because of reasons she couldn't understand. His statement made me realize that I was a voyeur in his life; we had no relationship or connection, and so I had to evaluate what I wanted to receive from his blog.
This made me reconsider all the blogs I subscribe to... I know I have to choose what I receive into my life, and I have to evaluate where it comes from. I used to listen to moody music when I felt sad. It seemed to soothe the emotion. You know what I've come to see? That music only enforced the emotion and fed it. Now, when I feel deflated, I put on something upbeat, full of passion for life.
This has been the number one most helpful habit I have ever built into my life.
So what about you? Are you surrounded by voices which inspire you and mould your view of the world into something beautiful and full of the goodness of life? Who do you read or hold close? Leave links below for the rest of us to share :)
How do these people impact the way you see the world each morning?
I've recently reviewed the blogs I follow. One of the bloggers expressed that he was having a very difficult time, and I was moved to share some words of encouragment, but that was all shut down when I read his response to a fellow commenter. She had encouraged him to be open to receiving help, but he quite definitely told her that he is no position to receive help, because of reasons she couldn't understand. His statement made me realize that I was a voyeur in his life; we had no relationship or connection, and so I had to evaluate what I wanted to receive from his blog.
This made me reconsider all the blogs I subscribe to... I know I have to choose what I receive into my life, and I have to evaluate where it comes from. I used to listen to moody music when I felt sad. It seemed to soothe the emotion. You know what I've come to see? That music only enforced the emotion and fed it. Now, when I feel deflated, I put on something upbeat, full of passion for life.
This has been the number one most helpful habit I have ever built into my life.
So what about you? Are you surrounded by voices which inspire you and mould your view of the world into something beautiful and full of the goodness of life? Who do you read or hold close? Leave links below for the rest of us to share :)
Who Will Remember You?
Thursday
If anyone has not yet discovered grooveshark, do. Just do.
Typing "Remember Me" into the search bar turned up one of my favorite playlists of all time. It seems that those two words inspire a lot of beautiful, vulnerable songs.
It matters to us to be remembered.
It mattered to me that I'm not sure anyone reads this blog. It mattered to me that my friends seem to be succeeding in blogging and getting married and getting degrees and traveling and joining the Navy, and I wondered where my mark was on the world.
Want to know where my mark is? It's in being able to listen to my Dad and take his advice even when I think it's stupid.
My insight and foresight is so limited by my emotions and daydreams and Disney cartoons that I've almost fallen into some pretty big holes in my life. When I listen to wisdom, I make a mark in my own heart. I clearly remember the moments I listened to my Dad instead of racing down the aisle, and those have left a mark on me.
I am the only one who will remember every step of my life on this earth. Why should I be concerned about the impression I'm making on anyone else? I am content. I am headed in a good direction. I trust that the people older and wiser than me are not always right, but they are always older and wiser, and I trust the Lord takes care of the rest.
Want to agree? Argue?
Leave a comment :)
Where are you leaving your mark?
Typing "Remember Me" into the search bar turned up one of my favorite playlists of all time. It seems that those two words inspire a lot of beautiful, vulnerable songs.
It matters to us to be remembered.
It mattered to me that I'm not sure anyone reads this blog. It mattered to me that my friends seem to be succeeding in blogging and getting married and getting degrees and traveling and joining the Navy, and I wondered where my mark was on the world.
Want to know where my mark is? It's in being able to listen to my Dad and take his advice even when I think it's stupid.
My insight and foresight is so limited by my emotions and daydreams and Disney cartoons that I've almost fallen into some pretty big holes in my life. When I listen to wisdom, I make a mark in my own heart. I clearly remember the moments I listened to my Dad instead of racing down the aisle, and those have left a mark on me.
I am the only one who will remember every step of my life on this earth. Why should I be concerned about the impression I'm making on anyone else? I am content. I am headed in a good direction. I trust that the people older and wiser than me are not always right, but they are always older and wiser, and I trust the Lord takes care of the rest.
Want to agree? Argue?
Leave a comment :)
Where are you leaving your mark?
I've Been
Wednesday
I've been away :) And now I'm back. Back to work, back to winter (an early one, and our heater's broken), back to repainting the house and preparing for three months in Alaska this May.
I'm not sure if I left my life behind when I went on holidays - I didn't plan to - but I am giving myself excuses for being sluggish, because "I just got back from holidays." Of course, it doesn't help that I'm sunburned (wicked farmer's tan is developing as we speak) and I didn't get a full night's sleep the whole time we were away (thanks, noisy aunts and bajillions of cousins who were too much fun to be with).
But now, I am back. Even if it is only for a week before I go away again. Tough life, but it's the only one I've got ;)
How do you deal with changes in your routine? Do you leave your life behind and then have to pick it up, piece by piece, when you return? Or do you manage to keep the ball rolling even in your absence?
I'm not sure if I left my life behind when I went on holidays - I didn't plan to - but I am giving myself excuses for being sluggish, because "I just got back from holidays." Of course, it doesn't help that I'm sunburned (wicked farmer's tan is developing as we speak) and I didn't get a full night's sleep the whole time we were away (thanks, noisy aunts and bajillions of cousins who were too much fun to be with).
But now, I am back. Even if it is only for a week before I go away again. Tough life, but it's the only one I've got ;)
How do you deal with changes in your routine? Do you leave your life behind and then have to pick it up, piece by piece, when you return? Or do you manage to keep the ball rolling even in your absence?
(Not) washing my hair and how to grow rich...
Who influences you?
This morning, I didn't wash my hair. And I don't plan to for quite a while... maybe forever, we'll see. Guess why this happened... Because of my dear friend, Katie, and this post about going poo-less. I've toyed with the idea before, sure, but it was Katie's words and her passion which tipped me over the edge.
It's only day 1, but I love the feeling of my hair and the idea that I don't have to wash buckets of money down the drain each year. She gave out her passion and her knowledge, and I benefitted from it. What do you think this does for her?
I was reading Rich Dad, Poor Dad today (great book; I'm glad I finally cracked open the copy my Dad bought me for a $1!), and I love the following excerpt:
It reminds me of the story of the guy sitting with firewood in his arms on a cold freezing night, and he is yelling at the pot-bellied stove, "When you give me some heat, then I'll put some wood in." And when it comes to money, love, happiness, sales and contacts, all one needs to remember is first to give what you want and it will come back in droves.
What about you? What do you want out of the world? What are you sowing in?
This morning, I didn't wash my hair. And I don't plan to for quite a while... maybe forever, we'll see. Guess why this happened... Because of my dear friend, Katie, and this post about going poo-less. I've toyed with the idea before, sure, but it was Katie's words and her passion which tipped me over the edge.
It's only day 1, but I love the feeling of my hair and the idea that I don't have to wash buckets of money down the drain each year. She gave out her passion and her knowledge, and I benefitted from it. What do you think this does for her?
I was reading Rich Dad, Poor Dad today (great book; I'm glad I finally cracked open the copy my Dad bought me for a $1!), and I love the following excerpt:
It reminds me of the story of the guy sitting with firewood in his arms on a cold freezing night, and he is yelling at the pot-bellied stove, "When you give me some heat, then I'll put some wood in." And when it comes to money, love, happiness, sales and contacts, all one needs to remember is first to give what you want and it will come back in droves.
What about you? What do you want out of the world? What are you sowing in?
Watching Memories Fly
Saturday
We held a garage sale yesterday, in preparation for The Big Move.
It was disconcerting to watch objects from my memories fly away in someone else's hands. I'm convinced that these things had to go, and I was excited as I saw our piles growing smaller and smaller, so it wasn't too hard to let them go.
Life changes. I am not the girl I was when I hid that book from my brother 10 years ago. I am not the girl who sat on those chairs at Christmas and sulked because we got ham and not roast chicken. I am someone else.
This thought is intensely liberating. If I am not that girl, then I have no reason to still carry guilt about what that girl did. I have no reason to believe I am still that arrogant, nerdy little brat. I would not now do what she has done, so why carry vestigial remnants of her?
I was reading Poke the Box today, and I saw the value in this book for me, because it shows me where I still limit myself according to what I have been. Failure is the partner of exploration. Failure doesn't define us.
Praise the Lord that we can choose to be someone new every day and be open to the limitless possibilities.
It was disconcerting to watch objects from my memories fly away in someone else's hands. I'm convinced that these things had to go, and I was excited as I saw our piles growing smaller and smaller, so it wasn't too hard to let them go.
Life changes. I am not the girl I was when I hid that book from my brother 10 years ago. I am not the girl who sat on those chairs at Christmas and sulked because we got ham and not roast chicken. I am someone else.
This thought is intensely liberating. If I am not that girl, then I have no reason to still carry guilt about what that girl did. I have no reason to believe I am still that arrogant, nerdy little brat. I would not now do what she has done, so why carry vestigial remnants of her?
I was reading Poke the Box today, and I saw the value in this book for me, because it shows me where I still limit myself according to what I have been. Failure is the partner of exploration. Failure doesn't define us.
Praise the Lord that we can choose to be someone new every day and be open to the limitless possibilities.
Do You Believe in the Magic?
Sunday
We like to believe the magic. I've seen this in two movies so far (and quite a few conversations)...
I'm half-way through Mansfield Park, and Fanny is desperate for that magic love she felt once. She can't accept anything else, even if she risks living alone in poverty forever.
Similarly, in The Adjustment Bureau, the protagonist feels something once, and he's hooked for life. Why do we do this? Should we?
I feel this same feeling when it comes to shopping. I'm serious. I spent an hour shopping online for a travel bag which would make me feel 'magical.' I looked at wheeled duffles, because Chris Brogan loved one; I looked at Dianne Von Fustenberg, because I remembered a reference to her in Life From Scratch; I tried the cheap-o bags, because my dad likes to live sans-frills.
In the end, I chose a bag which is no more functional or beautiful than any other... but it was the one my heart first settled on.
Advertisers try to convince people that this product will give them the 'magic' feeling or they'll get that 'magic' result, but I want to be the kind of marketer who helps a customer access that thing their heart first settled on.
What does that mean? I'm not sure... What would I do? I don't know... But I do know it doesn't include false promises or convincing or hyping. It does honesty.
What are you Working For?
Wednesday
How much is your work worth?
How would you charge for your work if you could charge anything? I mean, really anything.
I'd be tempted to charge myself out for cello lessons or Cirque du Soleil tickets. My work for my boss today was worth at least one cello lesson and half a Cirque du Soleil ticket... I might have found the perfect person to replace me, and I'd say that alone is worth a ticket to Saltimbanco and a nice dinner afterwards...
My point is... I think we've lost sight of the reasons why we go to work.
The dream is to go to work to earn enough money to be able to buy a nice house and have nice kids and have a nice retirement... but one of my parents has a job which costs as much as it pays. It costs money in petrol, car expenses, uniform, taxes, etc. In this case, the personal benefits of the job are worth the expenses, but the question needs to be asked: what are you working for?
What do you love? If you could set your own hourly rate, how would you charge? What are you working for?
[Leave comments below!]
How would you charge for your work if you could charge anything? I mean, really anything.
I'd be tempted to charge myself out for cello lessons or Cirque du Soleil tickets. My work for my boss today was worth at least one cello lesson and half a Cirque du Soleil ticket... I might have found the perfect person to replace me, and I'd say that alone is worth a ticket to Saltimbanco and a nice dinner afterwards...
My point is... I think we've lost sight of the reasons why we go to work.
The dream is to go to work to earn enough money to be able to buy a nice house and have nice kids and have a nice retirement... but one of my parents has a job which costs as much as it pays. It costs money in petrol, car expenses, uniform, taxes, etc. In this case, the personal benefits of the job are worth the expenses, but the question needs to be asked: what are you working for?
What do you love? If you could set your own hourly rate, how would you charge? What are you working for?
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Ways to Tell You are Owned by Your Work
Tuesday
We're currently looking for my replacement as an admin/marketing assistant.
In the midst of me having no personal idea where I will be living/working/laying my head in ten weeks, my boss wants me to help him decide who will replace me here.
The problem is that he doesn't know what he wants, and he doesn't like what I want.
And I got a bit upset. I have built a marketing program here from nothing. I organised the new website, I formatted all the eNewsletters, I have created 12 months of articles and pictures to compliment. I trained myself on a brand-new program and created a clean databse comprising hundreds of hand-picked entries which is now used by two businesses. I...
I discovered that I was owned by what I do. I don't want to see all my efforts reduced to a folder of pictures and files no one looks at anymore. I don't want to see all those beautiful entries in 'my' database become irrelevant and incorrect after a few months of neglect.
But I want to be at peace with thi smore than I want to see this marketing program continue running. At the end of this post, I will have a choice: do I care more about my boss having a successful marketing plan, or do I care more about centering myself on peace and faith?
I choose faith. I choose to believe that the work I did this year has been exciting, illuminating, challenging, and generally beneficial for my personal growth.
My boss' business is... none of my business.
In the midst of me having no personal idea where I will be living/working/laying my head in ten weeks, my boss wants me to help him decide who will replace me here.
The problem is that he doesn't know what he wants, and he doesn't like what I want.
And I got a bit upset. I have built a marketing program here from nothing. I organised the new website, I formatted all the eNewsletters, I have created 12 months of articles and pictures to compliment. I trained myself on a brand-new program and created a clean databse comprising hundreds of hand-picked entries which is now used by two businesses. I...
I discovered that I was owned by what I do. I don't want to see all my efforts reduced to a folder of pictures and files no one looks at anymore. I don't want to see all those beautiful entries in 'my' database become irrelevant and incorrect after a few months of neglect.
But I want to be at peace with thi smore than I want to see this marketing program continue running. At the end of this post, I will have a choice: do I care more about my boss having a successful marketing plan, or do I care more about centering myself on peace and faith?
I choose faith. I choose to believe that the work I did this year has been exciting, illuminating, challenging, and generally beneficial for my personal growth.
My boss' business is... none of my business.
The Choice I Face
Monday
I read Pioneer Woman's blog today - apparently she's the bee's knees... and ankles... and pinky toes. As I'm getting more involved with bloggers, I'm discovering who the "big guys" are, and I'm liking them.
There is an art to speaking from the heart like these bloggers do, and that's what Pioneer Woman encouraged me to start with. She told me to talk like I'm talking to my sister.
Problem is... all I have is a cat.
(And she doesn't like me very much)
This blog has been about communications and official-type postings, but I'm feeling the itch to start being more genuine here.
I was caught off-guard by a text this afternoon, from a friend who asked me if I really enjoyed her friendship, or if I am just being polite to her. I didn't quite know what to say, because I was so grateful for her honesty.
When did you lay it all on the line and speak what you felt? What happened?
Lately, I've doubted that this kind of honesty is worth the risk... Can you tell I've been stung in the past? I don't want to doubt that honesty is worth the risk, but I'm seeing that you can't be both honest and safe. What do we choose?
There is an art to speaking from the heart like these bloggers do, and that's what Pioneer Woman encouraged me to start with. She told me to talk like I'm talking to my sister.
Problem is... all I have is a cat.
(And she doesn't like me very much)
This blog has been about communications and official-type postings, but I'm feeling the itch to start being more genuine here.
I was caught off-guard by a text this afternoon, from a friend who asked me if I really enjoyed her friendship, or if I am just being polite to her. I didn't quite know what to say, because I was so grateful for her honesty.
When did you lay it all on the line and speak what you felt? What happened?
Lately, I've doubted that this kind of honesty is worth the risk... Can you tell I've been stung in the past? I don't want to doubt that honesty is worth the risk, but I'm seeing that you can't be both honest and safe. What do we choose?
The Problem with Being Babylon
Tuesday
I'm strongly considering buying the "classic" financial/investing book, "The Richest Man in Babylon." I've been told (by all the people who know these things) that's it's THE book to read. And it appeals to me; I believe completely in ancient wisdom. I believe that anything true will always be true, and history will prove what is real and what is false.
Here's my crisis:
The richest man in Babylon... is still in Babylon.
Is that where I want to be? In antiquity, the Israelites passed on to the Promised Land after being captive in Babylon. Do I want to get sucked into this cycle of earning and spending and achieving and spending and striving?
If I don't like that my shelves are full of half-read "good" books and my files are full of "useful" papers I never really use... Why am I doing it?
Where do I want to be? This week I'm going to sit with the questions "Why" and "Where." Why am I doing these things? Where do I want to live: Babylon? Israel? Somewhere else?
How about you? What's your "why" or "where"?
Here's my crisis:
The richest man in Babylon... is still in Babylon.
Is that where I want to be? In antiquity, the Israelites passed on to the Promised Land after being captive in Babylon. Do I want to get sucked into this cycle of earning and spending and achieving and spending and striving?
If I don't like that my shelves are full of half-read "good" books and my files are full of "useful" papers I never really use... Why am I doing it?
Where do I want to be? This week I'm going to sit with the questions "Why" and "Where." Why am I doing these things? Where do I want to live: Babylon? Israel? Somewhere else?
How about you? What's your "why" or "where"?
Under the Curtain... (#5)
Friday
I've had some trouble choosing my #5 blogger. This one should be something extra special, because I've kept it to last, and it is. But I can't share it with you :)
My all-time favorite blog, the one I would read the instant there's a post on it, the one I will always comment on, because the content is so rich, belongs to my best friend, Peppa. For privacy reasons, I won't include a link to her blog here.
She's not as technical and gutsy as Seth, not as crafty as Nie Nie, not as culinary as Monet, and she has noting like the beautiful design of Jen, but she's part of me.
I read a quote from Paddi Lund (the crazy dentist) which said something like 'people don't buy from businesses because they're the cheapest, people buy from people they like.'
It's true. I am an avid fan of Peppa, because she and I are connected. She is part of me and what she writes is part of my life, too.
The secret to success in blogging, or marketing, or sales, or relationships, is to become part of one another. Establishing trust is one of our core human needs.
Trust cannot be faked and it cannot be bought. Sometimes, trust is instant - that feeling of "clicking" with someone. Mostly, trust takes time.
As we all leave class and head off to our careers and families, consider how what you do creates trust, and how you give out your trust in others. What does it take for you to trust someone? Are there any companies or products you trust? Why?
Leave a comment and let me know...
My all-time favorite blog, the one I would read the instant there's a post on it, the one I will always comment on, because the content is so rich, belongs to my best friend, Peppa. For privacy reasons, I won't include a link to her blog here.
She's not as technical and gutsy as Seth, not as crafty as Nie Nie, not as culinary as Monet, and she has noting like the beautiful design of Jen, but she's part of me.
I read a quote from Paddi Lund (the crazy dentist) which said something like 'people don't buy from businesses because they're the cheapest, people buy from people they like.'
It's true. I am an avid fan of Peppa, because she and I are connected. She is part of me and what she writes is part of my life, too.
The secret to success in blogging, or marketing, or sales, or relationships, is to become part of one another. Establishing trust is one of our core human needs.
Trust cannot be faked and it cannot be bought. Sometimes, trust is instant - that feeling of "clicking" with someone. Mostly, trust takes time.
As we all leave class and head off to our careers and families, consider how what you do creates trust, and how you give out your trust in others. What does it take for you to trust someone? Are there any companies or products you trust? Why?
Leave a comment and let me know...
A. Lot.
Saturday
Don't ever get this one wrong after you've read this:
hyperboleandahalf.blogspot.com/.../alot-is-better-than-you-at-everything.html
hyperboleandahalf.blogspot.com/.../alot-is-better-than-you-at-everything.html
And the Winner is #4!
Friday
Today is all about the number 4 - congratulations Zena! I had the imaginary number four picked in my mind, so you shall be the lucky recipient of some genuine Australian candy. I'll get in touch with you through our class mail to handle the details :)
And, on the theme of #4, my fourth favorite blogger is:
Jen's blog is a step away from the usual blog, because she rarely shares her own stories, but her posts are still so authentic and captivating. I know all about Monet's broken wine glass last week, but I couldn't even tell you if Jen drinks from glasses, because she rarely shares anything personal. What keeps her blogs so interesting? She shares intimate, personal details from hundreds of other people.
We live vicariously through these strangers and their romantic fairytales...
(a good thought to keep in mind for your own blogging - you don't have to tell your story, just make sure you tell a good story)
I'm not married, nor am I soon planning to be, but I keep coming back for the beautiful, thoughtful, personal design of each event.
My personal favorite is Ben + Catie's 1940's themed wedding. I might be biased, because I share an unusual name with the bride, but the simplicity and confidence of their style was stunning.
And, on the theme of #4, my fourth favorite blogger is:
- Seth Godin
- Nie Nie (aka Stephanie Nielson)
- Anecdotes and Apple Cores
- Green Wedding Shoes - wedding and design blog - www.greenweddingshoes.com
Jen's blog is a step away from the usual blog, because she rarely shares her own stories, but her posts are still so authentic and captivating. I know all about Monet's broken wine glass last week, but I couldn't even tell you if Jen drinks from glasses, because she rarely shares anything personal. What keeps her blogs so interesting? She shares intimate, personal details from hundreds of other people.
We live vicariously through these strangers and their romantic fairytales...
(a good thought to keep in mind for your own blogging - you don't have to tell your story, just make sure you tell a good story)
I'm not married, nor am I soon planning to be, but I keep coming back for the beautiful, thoughtful, personal design of each event.
My personal favorite is Ben + Catie's 1940's themed wedding. I might be biased, because I share an unusual name with the bride, but the simplicity and confidence of their style was stunning.
Woman Eaten by Radioactive Pale Rider
Monday
Did I hook you? Are you interested in what I have to say?
I hope so, because I have a request:
I need to hear what you think about my blogging.
After a significant job offer this week, I'm looking at a future in professional blogging, and I NEED to know if I'm any good. I'm beyond worrying about my feelings, so don't be afraid of hurting them.
Are you interested in what I've been saying on this blog?
IF not, why not?
IF so, why so?
What have been the highlights and lowlights of the past three weeks of my blogging?
I'm begging you, seriously. If I could offer you a prize for posting your comment below, I would. In fact, I will... I have a number in mind, and if you are the (secret number)th commenter on this post, I will personally send you some genuine Australian candy.
Thank you. My future audience and I appreciate your assistance.
I hope so, because I have a request:
I need to hear what you think about my blogging.
After a significant job offer this week, I'm looking at a future in professional blogging, and I NEED to know if I'm any good. I'm beyond worrying about my feelings, so don't be afraid of hurting them.
Are you interested in what I've been saying on this blog?
IF not, why not?
IF so, why so?
What have been the highlights and lowlights of the past three weeks of my blogging?
Thank you. My future audience and I appreciate your assistance.
Mr. Smith, This is Your Hour
Saturday
I often create imaginary scenarios in my mind. These things come from nowhere ~ I might hear a phrase on the radio and suddenly it becomes a fully-fledged story in my head, except there's rarely a good plot or resolution. I just 'see' a conversation in my mind's eye. When we got this week's assignment on conflict resolution, the same thing happened:
“John, would you meet me in my office in ten minutes, please?”
I’m walking back to my office along polished hallways. John Smith has worked for the company for two years, and I imagine he has a darling wife at home and a baby, and his wife has cooked him his favorite meal for dinner tonight – a spicy Chicken Alfredo. I imagine her response as he tells her about a meeting he had with his department manager today. This kind of mental exercise generates empathy and prepares me for the meeting ahead.
“John, thank you for your time. I won’t keep you long, but I want to let you know that I am concerned about your recent achievements…”
Note to self: good use of the word ‘achievements’ – I want John to feel empowered. I want to give him “the maximum amount of power to do a job as [he sees] fit; including both responsibility and accountability for work performed” (Shockley-Zalabak, 2009, p. 228). When he feels strong and appreciated, he’s more likely to take what I have to say as constructive, not destructive.
“John, you’ve been with Happy Tech for two years now, and we’ve done very well in those two years. We’ve grown nicely and we have a work environment that I know we all enjoy.”
This is good – it focuses on the positives and creates a sense of camaraderie.
“This is why I’ve called you in here today. I know you’re committed to your work and to making Happy Tech a company customers enjoy working with, so I was concerned about some recent reports.
I have a copy here of the agreement we signed when you first began here, and I’d like to review it with you. You’ll notice that you signed here where we list the monthly targets we thought you could achieve. Now, I know you haven’t been able to make those goals these past three months. Is this something you can fix by our next monthly review?”
Now, it’s time for me to take a breath. If he tries to justify himself or cast blame, let him speak, but don’t respond to the accusations. I need to listen to what he says, and respond appropriately if he brings up legitimate issues I can help him address. If he doesn’t bring up anything new, it’s time to continue…
“John, I’m concerned, because you’ve shown outstanding customer-service skills over the past two years, and your coworkers all appreciated the mischievous sense of humor you brought to our office, but these same people seem to have been offended by that sense of humor lately. I have watched your interactions in the office, and I have seen that you are quite competitive. Great! We love a strong sense of competition at Happy Tech – our competitiveness is how we stay the best – so please direct that energy towards helping our customers with their concerns.”
This works to help set an understanding between us, but it is a little vague… I “need to request specific changes, both in the action requested and in the amount of change desired” (Cahn, 2007, p. 101). If John can understand exactly what I require from him, he can work on achieving it.
“You know that Happy Tech has quite serious policies in place regarding employee dismissal. Neither of us wants this situation to go that far, but I am bound by the agreement we signed. You have a month now to prove you can reach those performance goals we set when you began with Happy Tech. I will be watching your progress carefully and I will be on the floor to see how you’re putting your competitiveness to good use. If you achieve your goals this month and we have no customer complaints, we’ll write this down as just another training exercise.
You are an important part of my team, John. I’d love to see all your energy channeled into reaching your goals. Don’t forget about the raise you can achieve by exceeding your targets for three months in a row.
Thank you for your time today, John. We’ll meet again this time next month to see how you’re going…”
Okay… I’m ready for this…
To my readers: how would you feel if you were John in this situation? How would you respond if your boss spoke to you like this?
10 Steps to Completely Changing Your Personality
Wednesday
Have you ever wished you were someone else? Do you enjoy the excruciating bewilderment of not knowing how to interact with your environment? If you said yes, then immigration is the option for you! Below are ten quick tips to keep in mind when immigration – don’t worry, you’re already on your way to discovering a whole new you!
I. Everyone around you will see things differently to how you’re used to. None of your jokes will be funny and you’ll gasp uncomfortably at the things your new countrymen find hilarious.
II. Don’t touch anyone or anything until you’ve seen a local do it. It might be okay in your country to pat a child on the head, but in an Islamic country, this is the equivalent of stepping on a small puppy. Don’t do it.
III. People around you will either seem painfully indecisive or hazardously impetuous. Your feelings of confidence and direction will never be the same as you navigate the unspoken rules of decision-making in your new country.
IV. A 9 0’clock meeting may start at 8:45 or 11:22, depending on your new local time. It is a dreadful faux pas to be either too early or too late and you will likely be irritated either way, especially if you are trying to cater for the event.
V. Don’t worry if businessmen start standing so close you’re sure they can taste the sardines you had for breakfast; this is normal in some countries. Observe how closely others stand to one another and steer clear of individuals with terrible body odor.
VI. People never mean what they say. People always mean what they think you understand by the words they say. I might say, “Gosh, I feel cold,” but this could be a subtle hint that the air conditioning needs to be adjusted, or I could just be making small talk. Try to consider what the other person is implying, and if you can’t figure it out, ask someone.
VII. Body language is crucial. Imitate body language and learn to watch how others move and gesture. Some symbols and expressions will always mean the same things; learn how to use these appropriately.
VIII. People will not play by your rules. The words, “well, where I’m from...” are NEVER a justification for your actions. Enjoy sharing your culture and experience, but never expect that others will feel that same way you do about polite behavior or social mores.
IX. Learn the laws of the land. Obey them.
X. Don’t assume your new countrymen speak English. Don’t expect them to learn it.
Above all else, be patient with yourself. Immigration might be supremely easy for you, but this is not the normal situation. You’ll discover that you like things you never expected, and that some things really annoy you for no good reason. Find friends early who can help you transition into the new culture and accept that you will make mistakes. Hopefully, people will excuse your honest ignorance and come to understand more about their own culture through your eyes.
(Based loosely on my own experience and this article)
(Based loosely on my own experience and this article)
$5 Prize for Correct Guesses
Monday
WHAT are you reading?
It's a blog. Right?
Thank you for playing this game, if I guessed correctly, I win the prize!
Please send $5 to PO Box 888, SYDNEY Australia.
I am kidding, but in all seriousness, I am going to blog about blogs. This is my most hated blog topic, but let's get metaphysical.
Blogs fill the void between War and Peace and Archie Comics. Blogs are personal, so they make us feel connected in the metallic world of cyberspace, and they're instant, so they fulfill our need to have the latest information RIGHT NOW.
Blogs are also varied. If you've been watching this blog, you've already seen 3 of my favorite bloggers, and you've seen just how different these three are. Seth is a marketing guru, Nie Nie is a stay-at-home Mormon Mommy, and Monet is a baker with the soul of a poet with the soul of an artist with the soul of a baker.
Whatever your interest is, there is a blog to tell you what you want to know. But, like all the communications tools I've mentioned here, use blogs with caution. The benefit of a blog is that ANYONE can get published. The problem with blogs is that ANYONE can get published.
Would you listen to some guy on the street telling you the top ten best ways to make a million or fall in love? I hope not. Bloggers are like that random guy. The internet is deceptive because we can construct the image we would like to portray, whereas real life is more honest. A blog might look authoritative, but unless you know who the author is, or you know his/her professional affiliations, assume he is just another kid like you, sitting at his computer, spitting out the first idea he thinks of.
Don't take blog authors too seriously. Not even me.
It's a blog. Right?
Thank you for playing this game, if I guessed correctly, I win the prize!
Please send $5 to PO Box 888, SYDNEY Australia.
I am kidding, but in all seriousness, I am going to blog about blogs. This is my most hated blog topic, but let's get metaphysical.
Blogs fill the void between War and Peace and Archie Comics. Blogs are personal, so they make us feel connected in the metallic world of cyberspace, and they're instant, so they fulfill our need to have the latest information RIGHT NOW.
Blogs are also varied. If you've been watching this blog, you've already seen 3 of my favorite bloggers, and you've seen just how different these three are. Seth is a marketing guru, Nie Nie is a stay-at-home Mormon Mommy, and Monet is a baker with the soul of a poet with the soul of an artist with the soul of a baker.
Whatever your interest is, there is a blog to tell you what you want to know. But, like all the communications tools I've mentioned here, use blogs with caution. The benefit of a blog is that ANYONE can get published. The problem with blogs is that ANYONE can get published.
Would you listen to some guy on the street telling you the top ten best ways to make a million or fall in love? I hope not. Bloggers are like that random guy. The internet is deceptive because we can construct the image we would like to portray, whereas real life is more honest. A blog might look authoritative, but unless you know who the author is, or you know his/her professional affiliations, assume he is just another kid like you, sitting at his computer, spitting out the first idea he thinks of.
Don't take blog authors too seriously. Not even me.
Do Facial Expression Increase Attraction?
How do you feel when I say:
You are just the smartest person I ever met.
Now, imagine you can see me roll my eyes while I say that.
Now, imagine you can see my twirl my hair and bat my eyelashes while I say that.
Well, now you don't have ton wonder what my face is doing while I compliment you; welcome to Skype.
What difference does it make to my meaning when you can see my face? It makes ALL the difference. Expression is our physical cue to the other person, to explain to them how we intend for them to interpret our message. Our words include a message, but our expressions and tone are the keys to unlocking that message.
Skype is a simple program a computer user can install in their laptop, internet-capable phone, or desktop computer. All the user needs is a webcam, microphone, and speakers, and s/he can start using Skype. Of course, it also helps if the user has friends who are similarly connected to Skype, but that's a gamble we'll have to take.
Skype uses video and audio to conduct a face-to-face call between two users. These individuals can be separated by as many miles or oceans as they like; Skype (thanks to our god friend, the internet) can cross them all.
I have personally used Skype regularly since 2004 and I love it. I love that awkward feeling I get when I see an old friend for the first time in months or years and I feel the urge to hug them, but can't. I love that there's no way I can hide my surprise when she shares that she's finally decided to quit shaving her legs and move to a commune. I love seeing her tear up when we laugh hysterically about the good old days. Skype brings communication to life, including our awkward moments and our beautiful experiences.
Skype is a tool, just like any other, which helps communication, but it also presents unique challenges. Users have to find ways to work around the awkward moments when they aren't able to physically move or touch one another. We also have to be comfortable with seeing our own image reflected back to us on the screen.
For all the challenges it presents, Skype allows a deeper feeling of connection between communicators. Anything that increases feelings of love and connection in this world is worth using. I fully encourage Skype usage.
You are just the smartest person I ever met.
Now, imagine you can see me roll my eyes while I say that.
Now, imagine you can see my twirl my hair and bat my eyelashes while I say that.
Well, now you don't have ton wonder what my face is doing while I compliment you; welcome to Skype.
What difference does it make to my meaning when you can see my face? It makes ALL the difference. Expression is our physical cue to the other person, to explain to them how we intend for them to interpret our message. Our words include a message, but our expressions and tone are the keys to unlocking that message.
Skype is a simple program a computer user can install in their laptop, internet-capable phone, or desktop computer. All the user needs is a webcam, microphone, and speakers, and s/he can start using Skype. Of course, it also helps if the user has friends who are similarly connected to Skype, but that's a gamble we'll have to take.
Skype uses video and audio to conduct a face-to-face call between two users. These individuals can be separated by as many miles or oceans as they like; Skype (thanks to our god friend, the internet) can cross them all.
I have personally used Skype regularly since 2004 and I love it. I love that awkward feeling I get when I see an old friend for the first time in months or years and I feel the urge to hug them, but can't. I love that there's no way I can hide my surprise when she shares that she's finally decided to quit shaving her legs and move to a commune. I love seeing her tear up when we laugh hysterically about the good old days. Skype brings communication to life, including our awkward moments and our beautiful experiences.
Skype is a tool, just like any other, which helps communication, but it also presents unique challenges. Users have to find ways to work around the awkward moments when they aren't able to physically move or touch one another. We also have to be comfortable with seeing our own image reflected back to us on the screen.
For all the challenges it presents, Skype allows a deeper feeling of connection between communicators. Anything that increases feelings of love and connection in this world is worth using. I fully encourage Skype usage.
eBooks: The Way of the Future or a Step Backwards?
Raise your hand if you have purchased an eBook to help complete your online degree.
Now put it down real quick, before someone starts to wonder about your sanity. You look silly, but if you're smart, you have purchased an eBook at some point in your progress towards your B.A.
Why would you have purchased an eBook? Because they're:
Since the invention of the Amazon Kindle, almost every modern bestselling book has been digitized and sold as an eBook. This bodes well for adult literacy in the USA. Now, busy adults can always have a full library on hand. It is easier than ever to read quality literature.
Now put it down real quick, before someone starts to wonder about your sanity. You look silly, but if you're smart, you have purchased an eBook at some point in your progress towards your B.A.
Why would you have purchased an eBook? Because they're:
- Convenient - eBooks can be purchased from anywhere by anyone. All you need is internet access, a credit card, and a device which reads eBooks (laptop/Kindle/iPhone/iPad/etc).
- Cost Effective - there are no printing costs involved in producing an eBook, there are no shipping costs, and (most importantly) the publisher doesn't have to worry about a pile of leftover books that might never sell. These three factors drive up the costs of traditional books and leave the market for eBooks wide open.
- Cool - one of the most popular, influential men in the world is a 26-year-old computer nerd. Technology is in and it's not going anywhere. The latest fad is to be totally online. eBooks are the new college cool.
Since the invention of the Amazon Kindle, almost every modern bestselling book has been digitized and sold as an eBook. This bodes well for adult literacy in the USA. Now, busy adults can always have a full library on hand. It is easier than ever to read quality literature.
However, what are eBooks doing to literature in general? Is this immediate-gratification version of reading turning books into just another consumable? Literature is taught at the most prestigious universities in Bachelors, Masters, and Doctorate programs, but classic texts are available for digestion while shoppers swipe coupons and buckle seat belts.
I appreciate that eBooks have made reading more feasible for us all, just like recordable storybooks have made it easier for children to listen to their favorite tales, but I have to wonder: what is this doing to our appreciation of literature as an art form?
Would you view the Venus de Milo while clipping your nails or paying a bill?
There is a necessary reverence we need to feel when we're interacting with great works of art. I fear that the disposability and convenience of eBooks is encouraging us to treat literature with less respect and attention than it deserves. eBooks achieve great things for communication, but there is also a cost: the easier it is to communicate, the less we value the interaction.
Are Storybooks the Easiest Way to Educate Your Children?
I'm taking a break from my top 5 bloggers to bring you this week's assignment:
Recordable Storybooks.
Imagine the setting: you're sitting by the fire, a glass of aromatic red wine in one hand, the latest NY Times bestseller. You're discovering that butler did NOT do it, but that it was... (Well, I can't ruin it for you, can I?)...
Where is your two-year-old?
He's resting quietly in bed, listening to his nightly story; but who's reading to him? It's a recordable storybook! Last week, you realized he only ever wants to hear Kiss Goodnight over and over, so you read it to him once, and let the book do the rest of the work. Now your voice is there, immortalized in those precious pages for him to hear... over and over... and over and over.
How wonderful is modern technology? You get to enjoy a few moments of guilt-free relaxation while your son gets his comforting story read to him by the person he loves most: you.
These books are perfect for all types of parents, whether they are in the next room or in another country. Parents who are in the military value the connection they can make with their children through these books. The child gets to hear their parent's voice and feel the closeness of their love, regardless of the distance between them.
The beauty of these books is the connections they establish: voices make us feel connected and close. These books also promote literary education. It's vital that young children get to see words as they hear them, but modern parents don't always have the time to sit and read to their children for long periods of time. Technology has helped bridged this gap between what we want to do and what we need to do.
Recordable Storybooks.
Imagine the setting: you're sitting by the fire, a glass of aromatic red wine in one hand, the latest NY Times bestseller. You're discovering that butler did NOT do it, but that it was... (Well, I can't ruin it for you, can I?)...
Where is your two-year-old?
He's resting quietly in bed, listening to his nightly story; but who's reading to him? It's a recordable storybook! Last week, you realized he only ever wants to hear Kiss Goodnight over and over, so you read it to him once, and let the book do the rest of the work. Now your voice is there, immortalized in those precious pages for him to hear... over and over... and over and over.
How wonderful is modern technology? You get to enjoy a few moments of guilt-free relaxation while your son gets his comforting story read to him by the person he loves most: you.
These books are perfect for all types of parents, whether they are in the next room or in another country. Parents who are in the military value the connection they can make with their children through these books. The child gets to hear their parent's voice and feel the closeness of their love, regardless of the distance between them.
The beauty of these books is the connections they establish: voices make us feel connected and close. These books also promote literary education. It's vital that young children get to see words as they hear them, but modern parents don't always have the time to sit and read to their children for long periods of time. Technology has helped bridged this gap between what we want to do and what we need to do.
Top Five Bloggers - #3
Sunday
Whew! What a weekend, and to top it off, our internet is down at home. The beauty of living in Australia (and rural Australia) is that this issue will probably take weeks to fix, when it would have been done in hours if I were in the USA. Communication in the southern hemisphere certainly takes a little longer than my northern cousins are used to!
So, on to #3 of my top bloggers:
Not that all women love to cook. Or that men don't like to. But these blogs are written by women who love what they are doing, and those of us who share their delight get to revel in it, too.
I love Anecdotes and Apple Cores for several reasons:
So, on to #3 of my top bloggers:
- Seth Godin
- Nie Nie (aka Stephanie Nielson)
- Anecdotes and Apple Cores - cooking blog - http://anecdotesandapples.weebly.com/
Not that all women love to cook. Or that men don't like to. But these blogs are written by women who love what they are doing, and those of us who share their delight get to revel in it, too.
I love Anecdotes and Apple Cores for several reasons:
- It shows foods which are actually tasty
- The recipes are normal enough that the ingredients can be found at my local, rural supermarket
- The photography is as tasteful as the dishes!
- Personal notes and tidbits are thoughtfully included, but they don't overwhelm the content
- The author is one of my college roommates (I'm a little biased!)
Top Five Bloggers - #2
Monday
It is late and I would love to skip this right now, but my latest resolution in life is to "go the last inch" (this is a quote my Dad has made his own, from a 'famous Russian author'). This idea of the last inch highlights the importance of finishing a job completely. Almost everyone does an 'okay' job and gets close to finishing and then quits.
~ For example, leave a comment here if you tucked in your bedsheets this morning ~
I'm betting most of us just threw the comforter over the top and headed to work. The last inch is where things become extraordinary, but we rarely go all the way, because it seems like a lot of effort for such a minor detail.
So, the last inch of my night: The continuation of my Top 5 Bloggers...
~ For example, leave a comment here if you tucked in your bedsheets this morning ~
I'm betting most of us just threw the comforter over the top and headed to work. The last inch is where things become extraordinary, but we rarely go all the way, because it seems like a lot of effort for such a minor detail.
So, the last inch of my night: The continuation of my Top 5 Bloggers...
- Seth Godin
- Nie Nie (aka Stephanie Nielson) - Personal/lifestyle blog - http://nieniedialogues.blogspot.com/
I'm sure most of you have seen Stephanie somewhere on the internet or Oprah; she's a mid-twenties mother of four who was in a serious plane (or helicopter?) crash a few years ago.
I'm not sure why her blog is so popular, but it is something special. Stephanie shares her life in a transparent way, without being at all self-centered. She makes beautiful crafts and share her beautiful home and family with her readers, but nothing about her is conceited.
Blogs like Stephanie's, written by young stay-at-home Mormon moms, are becoming very popular. There's a great article about the draw of these blogs here. This writer shares her addiction to Mormon Mommy Blogs, and I think she has some valid insights into the popularity of these blogs; however, I also think she misses the point.
The point is that these women love to share what they have. Success in blogging, or in any form of communication, means sharing your thoughts without trying to impress or convince anyone.
Bienvenue a la Blog...
Saturday
I'm wondering if anyone else feels a little bit excited and a little bit nervous about this blog assignment. Blogs tend to be very personal places, but this blog is in the professional/education arena, so I wonder exactly where the line of appropriateness should be drawn.
So, for the first time, I'm really considering what the purpose is of the communication I'm using. There is no textbook to open and get answers from in this class, so I have to dig the answers out of my own education. Ironically, my questions are textbook questions, like, "Why am I blogging? What is the purpose of the things I'm sharing? What does my audience (YOU!) really want to hear about?" This class is forcing me to find a practical way to use all the theory I've been learning.
I adore John of Salisbury's idea that we stand on the shoulders of giants, so over the next few days, I'll include my favorite personal and professional bloggers, for your perusal and consideration. I figure this will give you some valuable blogs to read and a little insight into my tastes and inspiration.
As I've looked at these 'giants' of blogging, I have considered why each one is so successful and why I get so much value from reading their blogs. I have included my thoughts below each title in italics.
So, for the first time, I'm really considering what the purpose is of the communication I'm using. There is no textbook to open and get answers from in this class, so I have to dig the answers out of my own education. Ironically, my questions are textbook questions, like, "Why am I blogging? What is the purpose of the things I'm sharing? What does my audience (YOU!) really want to hear about?" This class is forcing me to find a practical way to use all the theory I've been learning.
I adore John of Salisbury's idea that we stand on the shoulders of giants, so over the next few days, I'll include my favorite personal and professional bloggers, for your perusal and consideration. I figure this will give you some valuable blogs to read and a little insight into my tastes and inspiration.
As I've looked at these 'giants' of blogging, I have considered why each one is so successful and why I get so much value from reading their blogs. I have included my thoughts below each title in italics.
- Seth Godin - Marketing/professional blog - http://sethgodin.typepad.com/
Seth is THE marketing guy. Seth is the guy every marketer refers to at dinner parties when trying to impress non-marketers. If you can't nod and sigh over the idea of a linchpin, a purple cow, and the dip, you're not in the marketing club.
There are three reasons I never miss any of Seth's posts:
- I know he will post every day. His consistency gives me hope in a world full of inconsistent marketing promises.
- It counts as 'work,' so I don't feel guilty when my boss sees me reading his blog on company time.
- He's real. He gives real insights and he never posts a blog just to fill space. What he says matters to him, and so it matters to me.
Go ahead and leave me your thoughts about this assignment and the personal/professional lines to draw here. Do you feel comfortable disclosing personal details in a class assignment?
Also, what do you think of Seth?
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